It is simple to elevate and assume our spiritual leaders are infallible in the ministry world. But it is crucial to keep in mind that these people are still fallible human beings in spite of their calling and anointing. Instead of looking for mistakes in their ministry, ministers must approach it with grace. In this article, we will explore the importance of pursuing grace in ministry and how to effectively support and learn from our spiritual fathers.
First, it is essential to understand that all humans, including ministers, are imperfect and prone to error. This is not to say that we should expect or accept unethical or harmful behavior from those in leadership positions. Rather, it means that we should approach their ministry with an understanding that they are not perfect and will make mistakes along the way.
When we focus on finding errors in our spiritual fathers’ ministry, we can easily fall into a critical and judgmental mindset. This not only harms our relationship with them, but it also hinders our own spiritual growth. Instead, we should pursue grace and extend forgiveness when mistakes are made. This does not mean that we ignore or accept wrongdoing, but rather that we approach the situation with love and understanding.
Pursuing grace in ministry also allows us to learn and grow from our spiritual fathers’ experiences and insights. When we view them as infallible, we may be less likely to ask questions or seek guidance, for fear of appearing ignorant or challenging their authority. However, when we approach their ministry with grace, we create an environment of openness and humility, where learning and growth can flourish.
So how can we effectively pursue grace in ministry? Here are a few practical steps:
- Pray for your spiritual father: Pray for their ministry, their family, and their personal walk with God. Pray that they would be filled with wisdom, grace, and humility. Pray that they would be protected from the enemy’s attacks and that they would be used mightily for God’s kingdom.
- Seek to understand, not to judge: When you encounter something in your spiritual father’s ministry that you disagree with or don’t understand, seek to understand their perspective before passing judgment. Ask questions, listen carefully, and seek to gain insight into their thought process. Remember that they may have information or experiences that you are not aware of.
- Extend forgiveness: If your spiritual father makes a mistake or wrongs you in some way, extend forgiveness. This does not mean that you ignore or accept the wrongdoing, but rather that you choose to forgive and move forward. Holding onto bitterness and resentment only harms you and your relationship with your spiritual father.
- Be humble and teachable: Approach your spiritual father’s ministry with a humble and teachable spirit. Recognize that you don’t have all the answers and that there is always room for growth and learning. Be open to feedback and constructive criticism, and be willing to admit when you are wrong.
- Focus on the positive: Instead of searching for errors in your spiritual father’s ministry, focus on the positive. Celebrate their successes, encourage them in their work, and express gratitude for their leadership and guidance. A positive attitude can go a long way in building a strong and healthy relationship.
In addition to pursuing grace in our own attitudes and actions, it is also important to support and encourage our spiritual fathers in their ministry. Here are a few ways to do this:
- Pray for them: As mentioned earlier, pray for your spiritual father’s ministry, family, and personal walk with God. Pray that they would be filled with wisdom, grace, and humility. Pray that they would be protected from the enemy’s attacks and that they would be used mightily for God’s kingdom.
- Attend their events: Show your support by attending their events, whether it’s a worship service, Bible study, or conference. Your presence not only demonstrates your commitment to their ministry, but it also helps to create a sense of community and belonging.
- Volunteer your time and talents: Offer to help out in any way you can, whether it’s setting up chairs, serving communion, or leading a small group. Your willingness to serve not only lightens the load for your spiritual father, but it also shows that you value their ministry and are committed to seeing it succeed.
- Give financially: If you are able, consider giving financially to your spiritual father’s ministry. This can help to support their work and enable them to reach more people with the gospel.
Remember, time is coming when many will still look up to you as their spiritual father. Sow the seeds you desire to reap.
Yours In His Service
C. C. RAYMOND
